SECTION IV - THE ETIQUETTES

Truthfulness

الصِّدْقِ 305

Allah, the Almighty, said:

{…And when the matter was determined, if they had been true to Allah, it would have been better for them.} [Muḥammad 47:21]306

قَالَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: "فَإِذَا عَزَمَ الْأَمْرُ فَلَوْ صَدَقُوا اللَّهَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَّهُمْ"

Truthfulness is a name for the reality of a particular thing/event, concerning its transpiring or existence.307 It is of three levels:

الصِّدْقُ اسْمٌ لِحَقِيقَةِ الشَّيْءِ بِعَيْنِهِ حُصُولًا وَوُجُودًا.
وَهُوَ عَلَى ثَلَاثِ دَرَجَاتٍ.

The first level is the truthfulness of intent, and it is through this that admission into this affair becomes validated, and through it any negligence may be avoided, any missed (opportunity) may be reclaimed, and any ruins may be rehabilitated.308
The signs of this truthful person are:


  1. he/she would not tolerate any call to breaching the covenant309

  2. he/she would not stand the company of the dissenters310

  3. his/her resolve does not waver

الدَّرَجَةُ الْأُولَى صِدْقُ الْقَصْدِ، وَبِهِ يَصِحُّ الدُّخُولُ فِي هَذَا الشَّأْنِ، وَيُتَلَافَى بِهِ كُلُّ تَفْرِيطٍ، وَيُتَدَارَكُ بِهِ كُلُّ فَائِتٍ، وَيُعْمَرُ كُلُّ خَرَابٍ.
وَعَلَامَةُ هَذَا الصَّادِقِ:


  1. أَنْ لَا يَتَحَمَّلَ دَاعِيَةً تَدْعُو إِلَى نَقْضِ عَهْدٍ

  2. وَلَا يَصْبِرَ عَلَى صُحْبَةِ ضِدٍّ

  3. وَلَا يَقْعُدَ عَنِ الْجِدِّ بِحَالٍ

The second level:


  1. to not wish longevity except for the True One311

  2. to see in him/herself nothing but the penalties of deficiency

  3. to avoid the indulgences of concessions312

الدَّرَجَةُ الثَّانِيَةُ:


  1. أَنْ لَا يَتَمَنَّى الْحَيَاةَ إِلَّا لِلْحَقِّ

  2. وَلَا يَشْهَدَ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ إِلَّا أَثَرَ النُّقْصَانِ

  3. وَلَا يَلْتَفِتَ إِلَى تَرْفِيهِ الرُّخَص

The third level is truthfulness in recognizing truthfulness, for truthfulness is not actualized, according to the understanding of the elite, except in one case: when there is full congruency between the pleasure of the Lord and the actions of the servant, his/her state, moments, certitude, and intent.313 The servant thereby becomes pleasing (to his/her Lord) and well pleased with Him. His/her actions will then be accepted, his/her states will be true, and his/her intentions will be straight. However, if the servant is dressed in a borrowed garment,314 the best of his/her deeds will be a sin, the truest of their states will be falsehood, and the purest of their intents will be idleness.

الدَّرَجَةُ الثَّالِثَةُ الصِّدْقُ فِي مَعْرِفَةِ الصِّدْقِ، فَإِنَّ الصِّدْقَ لَا يَسْتَقِيمُ فِي عِلْمِ أَهْلِ الْخُصُوصِ إِلَّا عَلَى حَرْفٍ وَاحِدٍ، وَهُوَ أَنْ يَتَّفِقَ رِضَا الْحَقِّ بِعَمَلِ الْعَبْدِ، أَوْ حَالِهِ، أَوْ وَقْتِهِ، وَإِيقَانِ الْعَبْدِ وَقَصْدِهِ، فَيَكونَ الْعَبْدُ رَاضِيًا مَرْضِيًّا. فَأَعْمَالُهُ إِذَنْ مَرَضِيَّةٌ وَأَحْوَالُهُ صَادِقَةٌ وَقُصُودُهُ مُسْتَقِيمَةٌ. وَإِنْ كَانَ الْعَبْدُ كُسِيَ ثَوْبًا مُعَارًا فَأَحْسَنُ أَعْمَالِهِ ذَنْبٌ وَأَصْدَقُ أَحْوَالِهِ زُورٌ وَأَصْفَى قُصُودِهِ قُعُود.

306 The focus here is about truthfulness with Allah, which is the most important type of truthfulness and origin of all others. Allah also demands us to be true to ourselves and others.
307 Truthfulness is about consistency between statements and realities, words and actions, interior and exterior, claims and proofs, etc.
308 Once the intent is pure and you are not lying to yourself about it, all wrong can be rectified.
309 Not only will you not entertain these calls; you will be repulsed by them.
310 Dissenters of the path to God will cause instantaneous aversion in you. You will smell insincerity, inconsistency, arrogance, prejudice, heedlessness, and other vices in their speech or conduct. Mixing with them will be only for the common good, for their benefit if you can help them recover from their illness, or for your worldly benefit as long as you need to be in their company.
311 To continue to earn His pleasure.
312 The concessions that should be avoided are those of following weak positions or dubious matters. However, the concessions prescribed by Allah are loved by Him.
313 And the only one who can guide us to the pleasure of Allah is the receiver of His Revelation, His Messenger, Muhammad ﷺ.
314 One wears a pretentious garment that is not his/hers when they speak, act, or dress like the pious, without having their hearts and intentions.

Manâzil as-Sâirin

by

Shaykhul-Islam Abu Isma‘il Abdullah ibn Muhammad al-Ansari al-Harawi (396-481H)

Translation and Footnotes

By

Hatem al-Haj